uu leu;shs msßñkag .Ekq fokafkla
n¢kak ,efnkjkï
ifkdacd ììf,ag ifkdacdj oefkkafka fldfyduo@
b;du;a ixfõ§ iy wNsfhda.j,g ks¾Nhj uqyqK fok ljodj;a ldjj;a wmyiq;djg m;afjk whqßka fydr fndre fkdlrk wjxl .eyekshla'
jeämqru ixfõ§ fjkafka fudk jf.a wjia:dj,o@
ióm;u hd¿fjla fndre lf<d;a tfyu ke;akï tlg jev lrk lKavdhula ug jrola lf<d;a yoj;g ióm flfkla fjka jqfKd;a yßhg jevla lr,d je/Èu wy.kak fjkjd kï ug wiSudka;sl úÈhg ÿl oefkkjd'
rx.k lafIa;%fha wh tlal jev lrkak wudreo ta lshkafka@
lems,s flá,s jf.a foaj,a kï to;a ;snqKd' wog;a tajd ;sfhkjd' f.dvlau msßñ whf.ka fkfjhs wfmau lafIa;%fha jevlrk .eyekq Woúhf.ka iuyr fm%df*Ik,a fkdjk wh yeisfrk úÈy oelalu ug mqÿu wm%ikak yeÛSula we;sfjkjd'
b;ska wehs ks<sfhda Th ;rï wkafm%df*Ik,a@
uu fï Èkj, tla;rd kd<sldjl ßhe,sá ;r.hlg iyNd.s fjkjd' wÆ; wdmq fï ks<sfhda lshd.kak wh lafIa;%fha m%ùKhkag l;d lrk úÈh" thd,f.a weo l=o fydh,d thd,j fy<d olsk yeá uu weiafoflka olskjd' yßu wkafm%daf*Ik,a' oeka bkak wh ys;kafka thd,d wdÉÑ wïu,d lsh,d' ish,a, o;a jf.a yeisfrkafka' Tfydu hk whf.a meje;au b;du flá ld,Skhs'
ta lshkafka wÆ;a ks<sfhda jeämqr ;ek fokafka m%ùK;ajhg" olaIlug fkfjhs uqo,g lshk tlo@
uu ys;kafka thd,d ys;kjd wkafm%df*Ik,a fjkjd lshkafka fidaI,a óähd lsh,hs' thd,g ´k tlaflfkla fldKafv mdg lf<d;a wfkla wh;a tal lrkak' tlaflfkla iqÿ jqfKd;a wfkla wh;a yu.y,d yß iqÿfjkak n,kjd' ;j flfkla i,a,sldrfhla nekafod;a yefudau i,a,sldfhda fydhkjd' ienE Ôú;hhs rx.k Ôú;hhs folu tlhs thd,g' jD;a;Sh olaI;d ÈhqKq lr.kak thd,g lsisu wjYH;djla keye' uqo,a miafia ÿjkjd ú;rhs' l,djg wdof¾ keye'
Tfydu lshkfldg flfklag ysf;kak mq¿jka fkao ifkdacd ììf,a wÆ;a ks<sh;a tlal bßishdjg fufyu lshkafk lsh,d@
wfmda lsisu l=yllula bßishdjla keye' wms fu;ekg wdfõ wfma olaI;dj ksid' ta jf.au wog;a wms fï lafIa;%fha /¢,d bkafka olaI;dj ksid' ;ukag yelshdj olaIlu ;sfhkjd kï uu fudlgo ;j flfklag bßishd lrkafka' uu lsõfõ uu wo olsk foa'
wÆ;a ks<sfhd .ek Th lshk foaj,a weyeg oel,d ;sfhkjdo@
wfmda Tõ fudlo ke;af;a' uu fï lshkafka uu ieneúkau jf.a weia folg oelal foaj,a' iuyr wÆ;a ks<sfhda ;ek fkd;ek fkdn,d t;ek bkak k¿jkaf.a Tfvdlal=j, jdäfjkjd' wkjYH ;eka w,a,kjd' uu fïjd weia foflka oelmqjd' nh ke;sj lshkafka' fï yeufoau mßydKshla úÈhghs uu olskafka'
uqo,g wf,ú fjk ks<sfhda bkakjd lsh,d fndfyda fofkla lshkjd' we;a;gu tfyu wh bkakjdo@
wksjd¾hfhkau bkakjd' tfyu wh tlal tlg jevlr,;a ;sfhkjd' wdY%h lr,d;a ;sfhkjd' tfyu weiqre lrkak jqKdg wmsg;a ta kï mgne÷Kq wjia:d ;sfhkjd' ug ta whg lshkak mq¿jka ´jd lrkak tmd lsh,d' kuq;a ug thd,j Ôj;a lrjkak lkak fndkak fokak neyefka' wms ´jd lshkak .sfhd;a thd,d ys;hs uu lshkafka B¾IHdjg lsh,d'
mSla tfla ysgmq ldf,a ;r.hla ;snqfKa ld;a tlalo@
ug fmr wfkdacd" iì;d" .S;d" k§l,d wdjd' ug miafia È,aydks,d" ix.S;,d ä,dks,d wdjd' kuq;a ä,dks tlal fmdä fmdä m%Yak we;s jqKd' yenehs lafIa;%fha foaj,a fkfjhs tajd fm!oa.,sl fya;=' taldf,a fjiag¾ka Æla tlla ;snqKq ks<sfhda ysáfha keye yß wvqhs' uu wdmq ldf,u uf. fmkqu;a tlal ug ngysr mkakfha pß; ,enqKd' ta ksid ug fmdä lems,a,la ;snqKd lsh,d uu fyd|gu okakjd'
m%Odk pß;h fokakï" ckm%sh lrjkakï lsh,d ifkdacd ììf,af.ka ,sx.sl w,a,ia b,a,mq wOHlaIjre ysáho@
pß; fokakï lsh,d fkfjhs' Ñ;%mgh i|yd pß;hg f;dard f.k Bg miafia Èk .ek" we÷ï .ek" pß;h .ek l;d lrkak tkjfka' t;fldg yïfnkak tkak lshmq wh kï ysáhd'
fíß,d bkak mq¿jka jqKdo@
wfm wmafma uu lrmq foaj,a fífrkak' tlaflfkla ug iqo¾Yshg tkak lsõjd yïfnkak uu .sfha keye' Bg miafia ;j tlaflfkla udj fydhdf.k uf.a f.org wdjd' uu Tyqj ;,aÆ lr,d oeïud'
uu ys;=jd tod Tyq jegqKq úÈhg tod Tyq uereK lsh,d' yenehs uerefKa keye' keÛsg,d ug nek nek .shd' iuyr wOHlaIjre f.or tkak yomqjdu uu uf.a hd¿jkag l;d lr,d l,skau f.org f.kak .kakjd' ;j wOHlaIjrfhla ojila ug yïfnkak tkak lsõjd' uu yïfnkak .sfha l,a;shdu ie,iqï lr,d' t;ekg .shdg miafia uf.a hd¿jd uf.a f*daka tlg flda,a l<d' uu yÈiaishla wfka fjß fidß wdmiq hkak fjkjd lsh,d wdjd'
iuyr rE.; lsÍïj,g .shdu ug g%hs lrmq wh ysáhd' f,dÊ jqKdu uu b;ska fodr wßkafka ke;sj" kskao .shd jf.a b|,d ;sfhkjd' fï jf.a Wml%u mdúÉÑ lr,d fíß,d ysáhd' yenehs ug bf.k .;a;= .Eksfhla úÈhg ,nd.;a;= oekqu;a m%fhdackhla jqKd'
wOHlaIjre ú;rla fkfjhs fm%dähqi¾ia,;a Tfydu W;aidy l<d yßhg'
wdof¾ ys;s,o okafk keyefka@
wdof¾g kï fkfjhs' ;kslru ldudYdj ksid' ;j;a iuyre ysf;a ;shdf.ku ysáhd lshkak nh jqKd' fudlo ug ;ry hkjd' uf.a lg ierhs lsh,d ta wh oekf.k ysáhd' yenehs ta nhfj,d ysf;a ;shka ysgmq iuyre oekq;a ta W;aidyh w;yer,d keye' ;du;a n,kjd mq¿jkao lsh,d' fndre lshkak ´k keye uu leue;s kï tal fjku l;djla ta jqKdg n,y;aldrfhka .eyekshla w;am;a lr.kak yok tl yßu ms<sl=,a iy.;hs'
.eyekshlg újdyh w;HjYHo@
Tõ uu ys;kjd .eyekshlg újdyh w;HjYHhs lsh,d' uu wújdyl flfkla úÈhg ug oeka oefkkjd .eyekshlg m%isoaêh ú;rla fkfjhs wdorh" /ljrKh" fidhd ne,Su jf.a foaj,a wjYHhs lsh,d'
ta lshkafka oeka újdyhl wjYH;dj ;Èka oefkkjdo@
ug oefkkjd újdy jqKd kï fyd|hs lsh,d' ug újdy fhdackd" wdor fhdackd" fmï in|;d fkd;snqKd fkfjhs' kuq;a ug .e<fmk flkd" ta lshkafka újdyhg iqÿiqu flkd uqK.eyqfKa keye wo fjklkau'
ckm%sh;ajh" rEmh" ñ, uqo,a yd ishÆ fN!;sl jákdlïj,g ke;sj ifkdacd lshk .eyekshg muKla wdof¾ lrmq msßñ uqK.eys,d ;sfhkjdo@
foam< fldÉpro" fldhs ;rï i,a,s ;sfhkjdo" nexl= fmd;aj, uqo,a ;sfhkjdo@ ta jf.a m%Yak wymq wh jeähs' ifkdacdg wdof¾ lrmq msßñ wh fkfjhs ysáfha' fndfyda úg uf.a rEmhg" yïn lrmq foag iy m%isoaêhg leue;s jqKq wh ;uhs ysáfha' we;eï wh uu yryd ;j;a mqoa.,fhda y÷kd .kak ug wdof¾ nj fmkakqjd'
tfyu wdorh l<d kï ta in|;d w;ruÛ lvd jefgkafk keyefka' thd,d lrkafka fndrejla lsh,d oekqku ug yßhg ÿl ys;=Kd' flaka;s wdjd' yenehs uu ldgj;a tal lshkak .sfha keye' ksYaYío fj,d me;a;lg jqKd'
wo fjoaÈ újdyhg ;snqKq jákdlu wvqfj,d wkshï in|;d jeäfj,d' Èlalido jeäfj,d fï jf.a foaj,a olsoaÈ ysf;kafka keoao ;kslv Ôúf;a fyd|hs lsh,d@
wksjd¾hfhkau tfyu ysf;kjd' uf.a hd¿fjda 75]gu Tfydu Family Problems ;uhs ;sfhkafka' oeka uf.a iuyr fyd|u hd¿jkaf.a yiankaâ,d hd¿jg fydfrka ug Try lr,d ;sfhkjd' ug ;=ya lshkak ys;s,d ;sfhkjd' ta jf.a foaj,a olsoa§ kï fï bkak úÈh odfyka iïm;hs lsh,d'
,xldfõ mj;sk újdyh iïnkaO kS;s rduqj fjkia lrkak wjia:djla ,enqfKd;a ifkdacd wlald fudkdo fjkia lrkafka@
tl msßñfhlag .eyekq fokafkla újdy lr.kak mq¿jka úÈhg kS;sh fjkia lrkjd'
wehs msßñkag ú;rla' .eyeksfhlag msßñ fokafkla n¢kak wjia:dj fokafka keoao@
.eyekqkag ´k keye' iuyr úg ug leue;s msßñhd újdylhs kï Tyqg udj .kaknE Tyq újdyl ksid' ta ksid uu leue;shs ,xldfõ tl msßñfhlag .eyekq fokafkla n¢kak ,efnkjd kï'
ifkdacd wlalg mq¿jkao flfyj¿ mg,j.kafka ke;sj ;uka wdof¾ lrk msßñhd ;j;a .eyekshla tlal fnod.kak@
ck.yk wkqmd;h wkqj .;a;;a wo msßñ wvqhs' .eyekq jeähs' b;ska .eyekqkag widOdrKhla fjkafk kEfka wrúÈhg jqKd kï' uu ys;kjd ug wfkla .eyeksh iuÛ iyfhda.fhka bkak mq¿jka fjhs lsh,d'
t;fldg uq,a ;ek uqo,g' wdorh fkd,enqK;a lula keoao@
wdorh" wfka tal fudk ;rï fndrejlao@ wjqreÿ 18 § 20 § kï wdof¾ lsh,d urd .kakjd' ta jqKdg oeka f;afrkjd ta fiaru fudk fndreo lsh,d' jpk y;rla ú;rhs' n¢kak l,ska .Ekq uefrkjd wïfuda fï ñksyd uf.a uf.a ldgj;a fokafka kE w,a,kakj;a lsh,d' yenehs orefjda ;=ka y;r fofkla yo,d jv,d Ôúf;a mßK; fjoa§ t;ek b;sß fjkafka ne£u ú;rhs' tal orejkaf.a ;d;a;d" orejkaf.a wïud lshk ne£u'
msßñ .eyekqkaj olskafka fldhs úÈhgo@
msßñ ys;kjd ldka;dj b;du iqkaor jia;=jla lsh,d' iqkaor iqj|j;a u,la lsh,d Tjqkag oefkkjd' wE; w;S;fha b|,d tfyuhs' .eyekq flkd l+vqjla we;=f<a bkakjd kï Tjqka leue;shs' msßñkag .eyekq f.dvla weiqre lrkak mq¿jka' yenehs .eyekshlg ñ;=frla úÈhgj;a msßñ weiqre lrkak neye' fï f,dafla ;dlaIKh w;skao wrj fïjd ÈhqKq fj,d lsh,d fldhs ;rï lsõj;a w;S;fha jf.au msßñhd .eyeksh Èyd n,kafka mrK idïm%odhsl lKaKdäfhkauhs' fldhs ;rï f,dl= l;d lsõj;a tod msßñhduhs wo bkafk;a'
ta lshkafka .eyekshg;a msßñ tlaflkdg jvd weiqre lrkak bv ÿkafkd;a msßñhd fyd|hs lshk tlo@
fldfy;au keye' yenehs .eyeksfhlag tfyu wjia:djla ,enqfKd;a ´kE ;rula in|;d mj;ajkak .eyeksfhlag jrÈk ;ek ys;d.kak neye' fudlo msfhla ke;s orefjla iudchg odhdo lrkak jqfKd;a tal ta ldka;djg jf.au orejdg;a úYd, m%Yakhla' ta ksid .eyekshg hï md,khla ;sfhk tl fyd|hs' msßñ yß lmáhs' Tjka wka;))mqrhla weiqre lr;a f.or tkafka yßhg f.or yomq n;a tl lkak jf.afka'
ifkdacd ììf,a m%d¾:kd lrk v%Sï yiankaâ fudk jf.ao@
uu f.dvlau leue;af;ka ysáfha ìiakiauka flfklag' thd Wfoau f.oßka .shdg tkak ? fjkjd' t;fldg ug ksoyfia ld,d" î,d f.org fj,d bkak mq¿jkafka' ìiakiauka flfkla jqKdu fyd|g i,a,s;a ;sfhkjdfka' 18)20 § tfyu ys;=jd' kuq;a oeka ysf;kjd wdKavqfõ riaidjla lrk úOdhl fYa%Ksfha /lshdjla lrk flfkla fyd|hs lsh,d' fudlo ud;a fcdí tflka ´*a fjk fj,djg thdg;a ´*a fj,d udj;a odf.ku f.or hkak mq¿jkafka' fudlo oeka Th mdá" wrj fïjd ? .uka ux wdi keye' ta ksid ud;a tlalu yjig f.org fj,d f;a tlla î,d *s,aï tlla n,df.k bkak mq¿jka flfklag ux wdihs'
thdf. rEmh fldfydu úh hq;=hs lsh,do ys;kafka@
uu leue;s le;u le; flfklag'
wehs@
le;u le; flfkla ne|mqjdu thd Èyd fjk .Ekq n,kafk keyefka' ,iaik flfkla nekafod;a thd Èyd jeämqr .Ekq n,kjdfka' uu álla wd;aud¾:ldñhs' le; flfkla" ne|mqjdu ta msßñhd uf.a Èydu weia o,ajdf.k n,df.k b¢hsfka' ,iaik flfkla nekafod;a ug ieflka bkak fjhsfka yeuodu' le; jqKdg yenehs i,a,s;a ;sfhkak ´k'
yenehs ,iaik msßñhdg jvd i,a,s ;sfhk le; msßñhdg ldka;d wdl¾IKh jeä fjkak ;sfhk wjia:dj jeähs fkao@
i,a,s ;sfhkjd kï msßñkag ´k ;rï .Ekq bkakjd ;uhs' tal b;ska ilalrhdgj;a kj;a;kak neye fï f,dafla' ta i,a,s ;sfhk le; msßñhd jqK;a fjk;a .eyekshla .djg hkafka ;ukaf.a ìßhf.ka fjkak ´k hq;=lï bgqfkdfjk fldghs' yenehs iuyr msßñ tfyu fjkafka ;sfhk keyeÈÉplu ksid' tajd kj;a;kak neye' fudk jeglvqÆ oeïu;a'
,iaikhs ckm%sh;ajhhs folu ;snqK ldf,a wehs Th lshk úÈfha le; msßñhd fidhd fkd.;af;a@
taldf,a f.dvla ug leue;s fj,d wdfõ ,iaik msßñ' le; msßñ wdj;a Tjqkag i,a,s ;snqfKa keye'
t;fldg ifkdacd ììf,ag ´k lrkafka msßñfhlaf.a wdorh /ljrKhg jvd i,a,so@
Tõ wksjd¾hfhkau wms Th fudk fudk iqkaor l;d lsõj;a i,a,s ke;sj wmsg fudkjo lrkak mq¿jka' wfkl uu n¢k msßñhdg udj n,d.kak neß kï uu wdi lrk fohla ug wrf.k fokak neßkï fudlgo@ uu wdihs ksoyfia f.org fj,d bkak' tfyu bkak kï Tyqg i,a,s ;sfhkaku ´k'
msßñkaf.a olskak wlue;s .=Kdx. fudkdo@
m<uqjeks foa uf.a msßñhd uu biairyd fjk .Eksfhla Èyd n,kjdg uu leue;s keye' ys;j;alug hd¿jlg l;d l<dg lula keye' uu thdg fuydg fjklka b|,d ta whg wemafm%daÉ lrkak neye' tajf.a Wkag uu leue;s keye' uu ke;sj thd mdáj,g hkjg leue;s keye' uu wdi foa fkdfok fldg ug iermreI úÈhg l;d lrkjg uu wdi keye' ´kjg jvd iudcYS,S flfklag jf.au ´kjg jvd ksYaYío flfklag;a uu leue;s keye' wyqfjk fndre lshk msßñkag ug lk mef<kak .ykak ysf;kjd'
yeÿKq krlu lgl;dj fudllao@
uf.a f.j,a.dj bkak ñksfyla tlal ug Bfh fmf¾od ojil rKavqjla we;sjqKd' ta fj,dfõ fï ñksyd ug lsõjd uu mjq,a lvkjd lsh,d' we;a;gu ta jpk ál ug ord.kak neß fõokdjla jqKd' Ôúf;ag ljodj;a lr,dj;a ke;s lrkak ys;,dj;a ke;s mjqldr jevla tal'
tal ú;ruo krlu l;dj yeÿKq@
keye ks<sfhda i,a,sj,g hkjd lsh,d ud;a i,a,sj,g hkjd lsh,d fpdaokd lrmq wjia:d ;snqKd' ta fpdaokdj;a ug ordf.k bkak wudrehs' uu ú¢k ÿl uuhs okafka' uu rÛmdkjd jf.au uu ;j;a flfkla hgf;a rcfha riaidjla lrk .Eksfhla' tfyu i,a,sj,g hkjd kï fufyu mähg riaidjla lrkak ´k keyefka' tfyu fpdaokd lroa§ ug urdf.k uefrkak ysf;kjd'
wreKs u,a,jwdrÉÑ